Friday, July 14, 2006

18 Months!

Walt and I were playing in his room yesterday morning (after he finally got up at 9:30!!  what the heck?), and I happened to look up at him and practically did a double-take . . . my baby is no longer a baby, he's a full-fledged little boy!  I know this probably shouldn't come as such a shock to me since I do spend a good deal of time with him, but I was just suddenly struck by how utterly and completely different he is from when we brought him home from the hospital on January 16, 2005.



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First things first, at the 18-month check-up this week, Walt weighed in at 25 lbs., 6 oz. and was approximately 31.5 inches tall, putting him close to the 50th percentile for both.  We thought we were going to get out of the office without any tears because there were no shots this time, but then he fell on the way out and bonked his head on the tile floor.  Oh well.  At least we had witnesses to the fact that our child really is that klutzy and all his bruises are not the result of us beating him.



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Walt is definitely talking a lot more this month, although he still uses his signs quite a bit too.  His favorite word is still "car", but the runner-up has got to be "hat".  He won't wear them for more than about 30 seconds, but all of his hats now make an appearance every day.  And when he pulled his winter hat out, he also discovered his mittens and wanted to put them on.  Hey, it's only 95 degrees outside . . . you wouldn't want him to get frostbite, right?



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Walt still loves to be outside more than anything else, although he does get a bit whiny when it's too hot.  (Much like his father.)  On those days we typically hit the pool or the sprinkler park, where he is totally in his element.  Somehow he has gotten the idea that he knows how to swim because, when in the pool, he is constantly struggling to get away from us, or get up on the side so that he can jump in when we least expect it. 



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But if he can't be splashing around in the water outside, listening to a rockin' band is almost as good.  This week was the 30th anniversary of the Cooper-Young Neighborhood Association (where we live), and to celebrate, they had a party for the whole neighborhood with free hamburgers and hot dogs . . .



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. . .  and best of all, a band!!  Walt convinced our friend Jimmy to take him up a little closer so he could pick up some new techniques for his air guitaring, at which he has become quite proficient lately.  (He was in air guitar heaven this afternoon when I turned on the 80's XM radio station!) 



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I guess that's about it for this month, but before I sign off, please indulge me as I get all sappy for a moment . . .

I don't know how many of you have read the children's book called Love You Forever, but it's about this mother and her son.  The mother goes into the little boy's room every night after he's asleep from the time he is a very tiny baby until he's adult living on his own, just to gather him up in her arms and sing a sweet song about how she'll love him forever and as long as she's living, her baby he'll be.  Frankly, the page that shows her with a ladder strapped onto the top of her car driving across town to sneak into her grown son's room gives me the heebie-jeebies just a bit.  But I digress.   



Every night before we go to bed, Josh and I always tiptoe into Walt's room just to look at him.  Lately, we haven't been able to help but notice how much room in his crib he takes up now.  While we're standing there in the dark, we often whisper things like, "Look how big he is!"  or "Remember how tiny he used to be?".  When I think of how he used to be just a little, swaddled bundle of a baby, and now he's this great big, sprawled-out boy, I must admit a lump comes to my throat.  But then I think of the mommy in the book and I know that no matter how big or old he gets, as long as I'm living, my baby he'll be.  (But I promise not to climb in his window to stare at him when he's 37.  Cross my heart.)



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10 comments:

  1. I can't help but notice the "scenery" in the background of the sixth picture. I believe I need to come to Memphis and play with Blobby in the pool. I am sure I can use his outgoing personality and charm to meet the fellow pool patrons.

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  2. That was definitely worth the wait...the pictures...the memories...the sentiments...the misty eyes. Thank you Ginger and Josh for letting us in on all the fun. You are right, Ginger, Walt is no longer a baby...but a precious little boy...oh the fun that lies ahead...and the broken windows, and the bumps and bruises and the ball games, and oh so much more. Walt, we love you so much!

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  3. Thanks for the laughter and for the tears, Ginger. Tears are good to cleanse your eyes just before going to bed, you know. Where has the time gone--almost 32 years, but if I can convince you of one thing--it only gets better because someday you'll have your baby boy, his wife and his child, and the joy will triple.
    Thanks for being so generous with Walt. From the beginning you've allowed us plenty of time with him and have showered him with love that, until you're a grandparent, you'll never know what a blessing that is. We praise God for you and Josh and for the loving parents you have become.
    Cherish that sprawled-out little boy because one day you'll see him with his child lying in bed right beside him, and this saying that someone once gave us will make a whole lot more sense "my child's child is twice my child".
    We love you all!

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  4. That was a very nice post to wake up to for the second time this morning. The first time was when my sister called at 5.45 am, to ask if I could come over and pick up Anouk. She was admitted to the hospital, her bloodpressure is up again, and with 3.5 weeks to go, that is not good. She will have to stay for observation for a few night, but I could be aunt of another litlle boy by the end of the weekend.
    Talking about thinking about 18 months ago, when we stayed up way past midnight waiting for the call. Well have a great weekend, and Walt, keep wearing the hat and maybe this will be Ajax's year!
    Love from Huizen

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  5. Happy 18-month Birthday, Walt! We'd love to know what's on your mind in the mitten picture--that's an adorable expression.

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  6. Walt, we're am still thinking that we need to get Putty one of those speedo's for when you go swimming with him. Great post, and great story Ginger.

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  7. Between Ginger, Gram and Nana, I am now just this side of sobbing. I even had to pause the Tivo. There are so many phrases in our culture that become cliche and overused. And, generally, I try to avoid cliches. But I have already used the phrase "they grow so fast" about a zillion times and I know I've got a zillion more to go. It just never stops being miraculous.

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  8. I read that book recently and it creeped me out too.

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  9. I had to wait until this morning (Monday) to read the post and see the pictures, but it was more than worth it. Of course, now I have to go home to put on fresh makeup because my mascara is streaking down my face! Ya'll are just the sweetest family I know, and I love looking at that little boy's face. Thank you for the best Monday morning I've had in a long time, and happy 18-month birthday, Walt. I love you and your mommy and daddy.
    Aunt Brenda

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  10. Man, I've been gone WAY too long! Happy belated 18-mo. birTday to you Walty! Ginger, you kill me every time I read your "thoughts." You are just blessed with this wonderful talent of easy-to-read writing skills. God bless you all! And thanks for being GREAT parents. I love y'all!
    Uncle B

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